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On the Black/White hypocrisy and Don Imus:

by gare henderson 2007

 

The nation feels a sense of righteous satisfaction in the removal of Imus from the national airwaves.   Shock jock Imus and his ilk have long been known for pushing the envelope of the accepted, by lampooning our frustrations and ridiculing our pride.  Every resonant voice has gradually taken the obligatory sip of the scared sacrament of indignation, albeit most with contrite moderation.   Strong voices have called his words racist, sexist, and insensitive.  He has apologized, and his apology accepted by the team. 

 

It all seems so unsatisfying.  My problem is the hypocrisy of Imus and his critics.   Although, the spirit of his comment was offensive, to a hip-hop fan, his words were not really shocking.   Nevertheless, we all can see that the race of these women was not his target.  This is not just garden variety racism...that's too simple. This is look-ism! 

 

Unfortunately the group actually denigrated by his comments is still too far in the cosmetic closet of denial and quiet submission, to even speak up in its own defense, other than by racial proxy.   It was once OK to parody blacks, and Jews, and the physically challenged, but now the even an average citizen views such comments as sophomoric humor at best.   However, the most often discriminated population, plain looking women, are apparently still fair game for a belly laugh.  Made worse by a pandering press, the under-employed civil activists, and a credulous public.

 

My point is that if that group of women had been classic beauties of any race, the derisive thought would never have entered the simplistic humor factory which rules talk radio.   Instead the comments would have been sexual innuendo, and equally sophomoric rude comments.  At first hearing, I wondered about the furor, I had never found Imus to be particularly funny or interesting.  But in these days, blatantly racist comments would be unusual from someone with his hand so deep in the public pocket.  However, when I saw the team members, it was clear to me that his comments were code for un-attractive....and everyone knows it.

 

It was no surprise that these  girls were well spoken and accomplished, this is the reality of many girls who are not considered very attractive by the current cultural ideals.   It was the cowardice and dis-honesty of Imus and his writers, who decided that it would be transparent to attack these strong  women, by with their own limited ideals.  Do I do that?

 

The greatest injustice are the voices of outrage, who knowingly obfuscate the issue by crying racism.  Their response is just as venal, as Imus's pusillanimous missive.   They demagogue the issue with racial activism, and gleefully dance around the larger problem.   The same type of look-ism pollutes modern rap lyrics, the emphasis of image over substance is rife in the videos where dancers are un-apologetically selected for malleable curves over talent.  And lyrics which pedestal personal preference, and treat the less favored as cultural monsters.

 

It comes home to me in one of the most painful memories of my childhood.   My light skinned grandmother, who was most likely an un-diagnosed schizophrenic and protective of her genetic legacy, embarrassed me when she viciously verbally attacked my new beautiful Afro coiffed dark skinned girlfriend, as ugly and un-worthy...on their very first and only meeting.

 

However, my point is that we as a species can recognize, and then resist the urge to celebrate destructive cultural notions of beauty, and learn to love excellence and competence.  Some of the most common grassroots mythology in the black community is a result of racial preference on beauty.   Most blacks have heard the apparently apodictic insight "You can't succeed unless you work hard".   Yet, in our world how hard you work is clearly second to where you start.   We all accept the reality that an expert may fix a problem in a few moments, that the average person may never solve.  We accept this, because we understand the effort behind expertise.   Aren't natural looks an even more important starting point for all of us... when we first glimpsed our reflection today?

 

Attractive people, get use to people falling all over them, in restaurants, in jobs, even in apartment hunting.   An attractive person can walk in to a plumb job, with ambiguous credentials, while an over-qualified but homely person will have to endure countless interviews, and still find the job denied.  The list of looks based injustices goes on and on, and for anyone who rejects my hypothesis, I point to the multi-billion dollar cosmetics and plastic surgery industries.

 

The point is that the ideas of race and beauty are so intertwined in our culture, that the pratfall of Imus is actually a sign of progress.  And as the Virginia Tech shootings underline the need for progress...Too many children, ill-favored by race, have deep emotional scars from adolescent preferences, its small wonder that we don't have more rampage killings.

 

The Imus controversy simply revealed the incompetence of Imus and his crew, when faced by the vanities of race and beauty.    The progress is that beauty less tied to race as it once was.  And that there is hope that forced to face this reality...one day this base mythology "race is a beauty", which is one of "the ties that bind us" will wither and break.

 

 

Gare Henderson

for submission to :Letters to the editor: East coast dailies US

 

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