Gare Henderson

writer, businessman, inventor, philosopher

Expertise:

Computer languages : Adjunct faculty : New York University, City College of New York, The New School for social research, Bernard Baruch College, Hunter College

Business Entrepreneur: Computer-help network (Times Square, Soho : Manhattan): AAA-datarecovery.com: Washington, DC. Hi-techmovers.com : Chicago, IL

Engineering: Gravitational systems, New York : Design Engineer

United Technologies corp: Los Angeles, CA: Industrial sales engineer

Physical dimensions:

6'5" 245 lbs

 

Gare on Gare:

Born in the mid-west to republican parents, I've lived most of my adult life on the East Coast.  My childhood was remarkable in that most people could not understand me.  In the 2nd grade I was accused of cheating on an intelligence test, why I never knew.  But most people treated my opinion as special.   I was involved in many social development schemes during adolescence culminating with a private  audience with the state governor to pitch some sort of youth plan at the age of 15. 

After college I moved first to the west coast, and San Francisco is still my favorite city , second only to New York.  Two of my children were both born in Manhattan and attended public schools on the upper west side. I moved to New York from L.A. to start and email service bureau in 81, and we raised over 1 million  in venture capital,   but we missed a key SEC deadline and had to give the money back, while a company called Graph-net began a well funded start-up in a similar line and I gave up the business, and began teaching computer programming at NYU and consulting  on Wall street.

I built a computer service business  on 42nd street in Manhattan, but I left the city one month after 9/11 and moved to the DC area.

Chemistry.com Profile:
Your major personality type = Director
Your minor personality type = Explorer

You are a DIRECTOR/explorer

You are courageous; and you seek challenges. You are a tough-minded, independent and daring thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. You focus easily. And you are persistent, systematic and competent in pursuing your interests and goals.

You are also assertive; and you enjoy the opportunities your hard work wins.

You have a lot of energy. You think quickly, make decisions more easily than most, dislike unnecessary rules, and take a rational approach to people, issues and ideas.

You don't often enjoy "small talk." You are generally not interested in pleasing boring people and you gravitate to men and women who are intellectually exciting and get to their point quickly during conversations.

You are not conventional in most of your attitudes and values. You tend to be irreverent and pragmatic and you like spontaneous people. You can be an exciting, yet hard driving and exacting, friend and companion.




E-Explorer - 25% N-Negotiator - 24%
B-Builder - 21% D-Director - 28%



How your personality breaks out You Matched
with Compatibility
Rating


Explorer - 25% of your personality Known for high energy, high creativity and spontaneity. Seeks novelty, risk and pleasure. Intellectually curious and not easily swayed by opinion.


Builder - 21% of your personality Usually very popular. Deep attachment to home and family. Calm demeanor and low anxiety. Often consistent, loyal and protective.


Negotiator - 24% of your personality Excels at seeing the big picture, long-term planning and consensus building. An intuitive thinker who is flexible, verbal and socially skilled. Imaginative, empathetic and nurturing.


Director - 28% of your personality Daring, original, direct and inventive. A non-conformist. Skilled at abstract thinking and short-term planning. Often assertive and quite competitive. Tough-minded and efficient.



Dating Tips for Directors
Not everyone is as direct, focused and “to the point” as you are. So make sure you give potential partners the time they need to express themselves. You will probably be surprised at their logic and intellect.
Your competitive spirit is useful in the office but it doesn't work in dating--unless you find someone who likes to challenge and debate. When that happens, go for it. Otherwise, try to listen actively.
Aim at investigating some of the “grey areas” during an invigorating conversation. Much of the world does not see in black and white.
Separate work from play. Try to get your assignments out of your mind while on a date—so you can truly enjoy your “down time” with a partner.
Make sure to schedule enough time to get to know someone.
Try looking directly into the eyes of your partner during a conversation; many people find this “anchoring gaze” a powerful form of intimacy.
 

 

 

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